Wow, I'm astonished to read other poster's expressions that poodles were hard to house break. I have read they're much easier to house break than other breeds and that's been my experience.
I grew up with a miniature poodle who never had accidents in the house and was the smartest dog I'd ever seen (we had numerous dogs, a cat, goats, horses and cows). I swear she knew the English language. She would prefer to jump through a window than go in the house and dis-please us.
I never thought I'd see another dog like her until now . . . after a long period without animals due to allergies, we recently adopted a mini-schnoodle puppy. She is 75% poodle, 25% schnauzer, and her adult size will be between 8-12 pounds. She is 5 months old and is completely house trained already. But we got her at 8 wks, got up in the middle of the night to take her out, etc., so she never learned to go in her crate. Once they learn it's OK to go in their crate, or in the house, then it takes MUCH longer to break this habit. Of course some dogs can develop health issues which cause it too.
Like any small dog poodles can develop "small dog syndrome" - this is mostly blamed on the owner. Small dogs are still dogs, and still need an alpha leader.
As I understand it poodles are the 2nd smartest dogs of all the breeds (collie is first).
I just love our mini-schnoodle, even though I didn't really want to. She is an amazing puppy.
Good luck and I hope you find the perfect doggie for your family!
PS: To answer your question, if I'm not mistaken "toys" are just a smaller version of a mini-poodle. I do think you have to be careful with tiny dogs and little kids. Our schnoodle is the perfect size for us.