M.C.
Hi Hilary, I took my daughter on an airplane trip when she was around your son's age. I too had many of your same concerns about traveling with an infant. Don't worry it is completely do-able. I will just give you my advice in order of your questions: #1 Yes absolutely bring your stroller. It makes your life easier and gives you more storage for things like your purse and carry-ons as you walk through the airport. I used an umbrella stroller, but it sounds like you and your son would prefer the larger stroller that holds the infant seat. You DON'T have to check either one - you can take both of them strait onto the plane. There they will ID them, store them under the plane, and have them ready for you when you get off (very convenient). #2 No I would not bring the carseat on the plane. I held my daughter the entire time, and she did wonderful. Plus it made me feel more secure having her in my arms. #3 As I said earlier I would take the stroller and infant seat strait through - the biggest incovenience was having to fold up the stroller to put it through the x-ray machine, but it was worth having it. #4 Cleanliness aside, airplane bathrooms are CRAMPED - very difficult to change a diaper. I recommend making sure he is dry before getting on the plane. If it is necessary to change him on the plane, definitely do it on your lap. They sell little changing pads you can lay on your lap to protect your clothes; they also sell plastic bags to dispose of diapers in. #5 I did not bother to pack bottles. Breastfeeding comforted her and put her to sleep at take off every time which made for a very easy trip. My husband and I weren't always together either, but all we had to do was ask and people would exchange seats with us. Don't worry about modesty - nobody even knew what I was doing. If you have to sit next to a stranger just tell them, "I am going to be breasfeeding my son." 90% of the time people understand. The other 10% will have to get over it - you are not their to nourish and protect them. I am going to add a #6...RELAX!!! I was very nervous about taking a trip with my daughter. Everything that could go wrong with our flights did - from delays, to flight changes, to extended layovers - and my daughter handled it the best out of everyone. Also, although this is your first time doing this, it is not the airport's. If you ever feel lost or confused as to what to do find a kind face and ask. For the most part people are sympathetic and willing to help. Take a look around, you'll find many more mothers in the airport with you. Good Luck!!