L.L.
hi,
since we live 800 miles away from our family, i can tell you that i've flown with my 3 kids lots of times...(they are 3,8, and 11). if the plane has two seats in a row,take that setup, and you won't have a stranger to worry about bugging every time you get up with her...if not, i'd suggest the aisle, just in case. at that age, they tend to drop stuff on the floor, so small toys aren't always great. my kids always liked the little board books with the flaps to open. also, if she likes stickers, bring stickers or a sticker book..make sure you have lots of small snacks, a sippy cup, (not sure what the rule on that is now..), and maybe a lollipop for her ears. some doctors recommend giving them a decongestant before you fly to alleviate ear pressure...and if you do, you might get lucky and have a sleeper! by the way, if you fly near bedtime, unless there are delays, you may get her to sleep the whole way. whatever happens, remember that most people have been in your shoes at some point, so don't worry if she cries, or wants to get up, etc...it may stress you out, but believe me, anyone else will just be glad it's not them...this time! good luck...and have a great trip.