R.J.
REALLY look into the studies that looking into side effects of a tubal before you get one. They can last until menopause. The side effects being looked into include
- Mood changes (irritation to rage, depression, and constant "pms-ing" being the most common. Some others include 'atypical bipolarity' -aka doesn't respond to meds, mood swings, etc.)
- Personality changes (mostly linked to mood changes)
- Loss of sex drive
- Odor issues (vaginal, mostly)
- Weight gain
- Early onset menopause
- and several others
For decades the mostly male medical cannon dismissed these as "stressed out new moms", "women's issues/imagination/just 'part' of being a woman", impossible since the ovaries stayed in place, etc. Well, as more and more women have joined the field around the world... most western countries have started studying the "imaginary" side effects of tubals. To the best of my knowledge, those studies are not complete yet (although some are in the peer review process, easily looked up on any peer review database). Prelim findings are that these effects continue until menopause (part of why these studies got funding in the first place... WHY would x,y,z happen immediately following a tubal and last until the massive hormone shift of menopause UNLESS they get the tubal reversed? IS something going on?, as well as the massive *anecdotal* evidence of these doctors -female AND male- relatives who have had tubals, and female researchers themselves).
Something isn't "free" if it's going to affect you for 20-40 years. TRUE; you can take antidepressants, mood stablizers, hormones, etc. But if you have other options that are AS EFFECTIVE as a tubal (vasectomy, copper IUD), why run the risk?