M.M.
I had a tummy tuck 2 years ago.
Best. Decision. Ever.
No question. And worth every single out of pocket penny we paid.
I look like a million bucks. I realize I'm not supposed to say that...but I do.
Have you had a c-section? If so, it is almost identical in pain/recovery.
You will be very uncomfortable for about 3 days post surgery. Pain will be well managed, so that won't be much of an issue, honestly.
It will take about 1-1.5 weeks until you can completely stand up straight. And then you will need to sleep on a wedge/incline until everything relaxes enough for you to be able to bear weight and shifting in the area. That took 3 weeks for me. Again, not pain, just discomfort.
I had zero swelling, ever. Some of that is due to the progressive tension sutures my surgeon used, instead of drainage tubes.
Today, my scar is very light. My tummy is 100% flat, and I never, ever have to worry about "overhang" in my pants again. :) Nor any ab work, like crunches, etc... It's solid as a rock and absolutely beautiful!
I'm happy to share all the details of my recovery and procedure. Feel free to PM me.