Well, my daughter turns 12 next month. She was carried breech, and when it was determined that she was breech at (oh what was it?) 35 or 36 weeks, the doctor gave me a week to see if she would turn on her own. She did not. He told me at the time, that if she had not turned on her own at the one week mark check-up, that we could A) walk across the parking lot to the hospital and try version, or B) go ahead and plan and schedule a Csection for a week or so ahead of due date. It was up to me.
We opted to try the version. I heard lots of horror stories from others who had tried version while we waited for the week to go by. The time came, we went in and no, she had not turned. So we went next door and got a room at the hospital and they gave me something to stop the contractions I was having (they were so mild I wasn't even aware of them, but the monitors picked them up), lubed up my stomach, and we gave it a try.
It was very uncomfortable, for all of maybe 2 minutes. (literally, not exaggerating the time). The doctor stopped pushing on my stomach and I asked if it was starting to work... He told me it was DONE. (I couldn't tell, lol)
I asked him why I had heard so many horror stories of the pain, and he indicated that it was probably from people who had waited until too late in the pregnancy, and the space was too cramped already. He said that most doctors will not even attempt it. He didn't really elaborate, so I'm guessing it is a money thing. That, and if it does begin premature labor (a possibility) then your doctor's plans are immediately out the window for at least the rest of the day/night. With a C-section, they schedule you right on their calendar like a coffee break, and then their day isn't "messed up."
That is not to downplay the risks. There are risks. But I had no issues whatsoever, and delivered a healthy 7 lb 6 oz daughter about 10 days or so later. She was a week early.
I will also throw in that she had some mild hip dysplasia. She was treated for it by 3 days after birth (a foam brace she had to wear 24 hours a day for weeks on end, even though we stopped making her wear it 24 hours a day before the treatment period ended), and she eventually had hips that could not be told that there had ever been a problem with them (by 6 months old). I understand that being carried breech is one reason that contributes to hip dysplasia. And I wonder if we had not done the version, and went with the C-section option, if her hips would have been worse, or if she would have needed treatment for a longer period of time to correct the problem. Of course I will never know the answer.. but it is food for thought.
I had a very good relationship with my doctor. And he listened to me about what I wanted or didn't want during my labor/deliveries. I probably should have asked more questions than I did at the time.. but I was young and didn't have much knowledge/experience with all the potential for medical error that I am aware of now. I trusted my doctor, and that he would not suggest something to me that would involve serious risk to me or my baby.
I looked at it like this (and my doctor agreed): if you do not even ATTEMPT the version, then you are guaranteeing major abdominal surgery and anesthetics during your delivery, plus major recovery. Every surgery has risks just because it IS surgery. Regardless of recovery time.
IF the version works, then you can likely avoid the major surgery (and all that entails) and still enjoy a natural medication free birth (which is what I had). If it doesn't, then you still have the Csection to look forward to, but knowing you did what you could to try to avoid it.
You are monitored during version. There is a risk you can go into premature labor from it. But they don't just send you home the minute they are done. You stay in the hospital being monitored for a number of hours. I was fine. I went home that night and continued on. And, it may not work. Or it may work and the baby might turn back breech again. That happens, too. Didn't happen to me, though.
:)
Best wishes to you and your new little one.