B.A.
I have this problem, too, just as bad as you in fact. I have had 3 kids, and by the third it had gotten so bad that I wet myself sometimes if I sneezed. And jumping on a trampoline! Wow! There is a surgery they can do that will fix it, but they won't do it unless you are not going to have anymore children, because apparently childbirth tears the stiches and makes the surgery useless. Seeing as how you only have one child, you probably aren't ready to stop having children. I'm going to graduate from college in December, and as soon as I go to work and get health insurance, the FIRST thing on my list is the surgery (my tubes are tied). There is also medication that is supposed to help with incontinence. Ask your doctor. I have no insurance right now, so I just live with it. If I'm going somewhere and going to have to do a lot of walking, or if I'm sick, I just try and remember pads and a change of pants. My nickname with my brother is potty pants for christ sake (I threw up on a trip one time and lost complete control). Good luck to you.