C.S.
Dear P.,
You are not too late unless you've already had your c-section. The American College of Obstetrics and Gynocologists had a major conference last year at the National Institute of Health in DC where it was announced that women with one or two prior c-sections should automatically be planning for VBAC unless there is an underlying medical condition that would prevent vaginal birth. It sounds like you had a vaginal birth with your first baby? Which was easier on you? Statistically, the maternal morbidity and fetal morbidity are much higher with a c-section than with vaginal birth.
You are lucky to be in MA - many people do have to travel (the person who posted from Florida is unlucky enough to live in the state with the highest rate of c-sections in the country). Contact the ICAN chapter closest to you - I've listed them below and ask for referral to VBAC friendly providers. You can also contact Nancy Wainer Cohen, the author of Silent Knife, a book on cesarean prevention as she has a midwifery practice in MA and is the person who came up with the term VBAC. Here is her website:
http://birthdaymidwifery.com/.
If you haven't found this information yet, c-section babies are less likely to nurse, and more likely to have asthma and various allergies. I tried to VBAC with my second baby but ended up with a CBAC due to poor positioning and we were unable to turn him. I don't regret it - I went into labor naturally this time, and didn't get my epidural until about 5 minutes before the c-section. I labored for 42 hours naturally so he got many of the benefits of labor and he was not at all like my first baby who was essentially a druggy baby his first few days of life.
Here is the ICAN page - ICAN chapters are wonderful and can provide all the support you need. Also, please feel free to message me if I can be of any support to you. Congratulations and best wishes for a happy and healthy birth and baby!
C.
ICAN of Eastern Massachusetts
Greater Boston Area
Contact: Caroline Kelley
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ICAN of Middlesex County
Middlesex County & surrounding areas
Contact: Erin Seamonds
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ICAN of Central Mass
Central Massachusetts
Contact: Lia Reilly
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