I was in the same position, I had a C-section with my first, becasue she was breech with the cord around her neck turned out it was wrapped around 3 times, and they even had issues pulling her out of the c-seciton "bikini style" incision....one of the older Male Dr.s in the room wanted them to cut me again, in a "T" shape to get her, but the woman Dr., who was my primary, advocated for me and got my baby out fine, just took a few more tries! It wasn't terrible, I recovered fairly easily/well, was walking that night 8 pm, after being delivered at 3:45 pm. BUT, somehow it left me feeling lacking, and as if I had done something wrong/less than, in not "giving" birth, but having my baby taken out - I think this is a common feeling in women who have only had c-sections, especially when they feel it was not really their choice, the choice was made for them.
So I wanted to do a VBAC with my second delivery, but a month and a half before he was due, my Hospital stopped doing them, thay had been doing them up till then. Also, for the lady wo said eliminating VBAC from a hospital makes it a backward thinking hospital, etc. that is not true, we have a brand new state of the art hospital, and they were doing them, until the insurance became cost-prohibitive, they didn't want to eliminate them, but had to...a year after my boy was born there, they stopped doing deliveries at all, and they had had a wonderful Family Birthing Center only a year and a half old, OB insurance is sky high, since there are so many litigous people out ther ethat sue for every thing. Anyway.... Like you, the closest where I could do VBAC was about an hour away, and I would have to transfer all remaining care there, and especially with a toddler in tow, I didn't want to have to drag myself and her all the way to every one of those last appointments, an hour away. Plus if you are doing a VBAC and thus waiting for labor to start naturally, you don't know when/where you'll be, or who will be with you, or how long your labor is, since you don't have previous experience with it.
I decided to stay at my local hospital and have a scheduled C-section at 39 weeks. It was another surgery, which is not what I really wanted for myself. BUT it was an even easier recovery than the first one, we knew exactly when everything was going to happen, so we could plan for childcare for my toddler (we are new to our area, I am a stay at home mom, so no regular daycare, and the closest family to watch her was over 45 miles away), and we could plan for time off for my husband, so he wouldn't be at work 45 miles away when I went into labor or something. In between the two kids I had had a 12 week miscarriage, and I did it naturally, and went into labor and everything, and just waiting for my hubby and then taking the 15 minute drive to the local hospital the pain was excruciating, and that was with a baby only the size of a papaya! I couldn't imagine that wait and then a hour dirve to the bigger hospital, and finding our way through that huge place, etc, in that kind of pain. Maybe I am a woos!
I the long run, we got a healthy baby, with less unexpected things in the mix, so it was easier and less stressful for all of us, we knew exactly what to expect. Except for one surprise, our Dr. had been telling us for months that on Ultrasound he was 85% sure it was a girl, but we had a beautiful baby boy!
Jessie