R.N.
Yes! Get a bichon frise. They look like a poodle but much cuter and better temprament. I read 4 books on them prior to getting ours. They were on the top 25 dog list for kids in Parents?? Our little guy (18 mo) also said dog as his first word and LOVES dogs. He pulls Charlie's hair, ears and paws and he has NEVER shown an ounce of agression. To my knowledge no bichons will unless they were improperly bred. My husband was like we're telling everybody this is your dog, but now Charlie's his best friend and the German Shepherd moved outside. Bichons don't shed at all. You can get more info here:
http://www.bichonfrise.org/
http://www.bichon.org/
This site may help you too (it has the top 20 picks for families w/kids):
http://www.petplace.com/dogs/top-dog-breeds-for-families/...
The only downside is that they're such good dogs that they're popular, so you'll probably have to get a puppy. Then, it's hard to find females sometimes (if you want one).
Feel free to email me more info or ques if you need it.
R.
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