Hi K.,
It sounds like you have some unresolved concerns regarding vaccinations. In my opinion, I think you should do some extensive research BEFORE you have your daughter immunized.
You are a stay at home mom, and it seems you only have 1 child. Your daughter is at a VERY low risk for contracting anything. When my daughter was born we were living in Germany. I had her here, and then she and I went back to join her daddy. Our pediatrician there was GREAT. He was much more open to listening to our concerns with vaccinations. I had done my research and knew what I wanted to do, and he supported that.
I did want her to have the DPT, but I did NOT want her to have it at just 8 weeks old! I thought that is much much too young. Her system is still adjusting to being 'on the outside'! He said that there was NO reason we needed to give it at 8 weeks. We could wait until 5 months with NO issues.
One of my friends here in the states told me when her son was young, she really pressed her pediatrician regarding WHY they gave shots so early. Her pediatrician told her it was because when the babies are very young the parents are more likely to bring them in for well visits. There was no MEDICAL reason why they were given so young.
So, please, do your homework first. Your baby girl will be just fine if you wait. Many doctors don't look at the childs individual situation ... no day care, stay at home mom, etc... to determine their risk factor for getting sick. In addition, if you're breastfeeding she is protected quite a bit! My daughter literally was not sick at all for the entire time she was breastfeeding. As soon as she weaned herself... within a month she had her FIRST cold. She weaned herself at about 17.5 months.
As far as actually getting a disease like Polio as another mom suggested... unless you are going to travel outside the United States, the likely hood of getting Polio is extremely low. Almost non-existent.
Dr. Sears has a GREAT book ... The Vaccination Book. It is not meant to scare you, it is not written as an anti-vaccination book, it is just a well written book by a pediatrician about the FACTS regarding vaccinations. He has taken the time to research each vaccination, discuss the potential side affects (as described by the manufacturer), discuss how the vaccines are made, because for some, there are some issues regarding some of the igredients in the vaccinations... beyond the chemicals...but some have some animal components. So, for a vegan, that is an issue. In addition, he discusses the diseases they are designed to prevent. How serious they are, risk factors etc.... It is a excellent book to help you educate yourself.
Don't let doctors scare you into vaccinating your child. In addition, don't let the other side scare you into NOT vaccinating your child. As parents, we need to educate ourselves and then make decisions that make sense for OUR child and our family. A 'one size fits all' approach will only work for some...but for many it will not.
Doctors are limited by their education and their experience. Some doctors are going to be hard core western medicine doctors. Others, who understand that every child is different ... will be more open to discussing alternatives.
I will warn you...once you start researching vaccinations ... you can come across some pretty disturbing things. For example, Dr. Offit is a HUGE proponent of vaccinations. He is often considered the 'leading' authority on vaccinations and is quoted OFTEN. He is VERY hard core pro-vaccination. He really believes we all need to be shot up with everything in order to keep us all healthy. However, if you do a little digging, you find he actually holds a patent on one of the rotovirus vaccinations. This means he gets MONEY for every one of his vaccinations that is administered. He may be very smart...but it is hard for me to take someone serious when I know they have a monetary interest in the topic. Money is a huge motivator. For anyone.
In addition, there is something to be said for the bodies ability to protect us.
Yes, there are things you can do in order to help 'detox' the body from the harmful components of vaccinations. Dr. Sears talks about it a bit on his website...
www.askdrsears.com
Just relax, do your homework, ask questions. Make the decision that is right for you and your child.