Potty training is really training for the parent, not the child. I by trial & error found that if I was out & about, we had no accidents, but at home, we had them all the time. The difference was me. When we were out & about, I was more conscious about not having accidents & was forever taking mine to the bathroom. at home, not so much. So, I switched mine to pull ups during the day, & set my watch for every 45 minutes. When my watch went off, then we went to the bathroom. Helped alot at home. I did not make mine sit there for ages either, we would try to go & if nothing happened, I would just say, maybe next time. Took the pressure off. When we were out & about, I would go potty as we went in the store & before we left the store. You learn really quick where the bathrooms are & which ones are nice. I went to a garage sale & bought like a weeks worth of clothes for cheap & put them in a bag in the car. Also, I found puppy pads placed in the car seat help keep it from being a mess once you start wearing big girl panties. Once you get the day time bit down, & you want to work on night time, I say save the laundry...neither of mine minded sleeping in the pee & I'm not sure they ever even woke up. I had mine go at bed time (8:30pm) then I would wake them & take them to the potty again at (10-10:30pm) when I went to bed. They never fully woke up & went back to sleep almost immediately. I then set my watch for 1:00am & I would get up & do it again. They would then stay dry till 6:00am, which is when I got up for the day. This I think trained their sleep cycles cause after a month or so, they asked me not to wake them anymore that they could go in their own. I let them try & so far we have had no accidents. Yes it is tiresome waking up at night, but no worse than when they were feeding and hardly no laundry!! I did find if they wore pull up at night, they would use it. They did better with regular undies. My first, a girl, was about 18 months & she was pee pee trained by 2.5 poo by 3 & night trained by 3.5. My second, a boy, started around 18 months & day trained by 2 & night trained by 2.5. Hope this helps you in your potty journey. :P