My son was 9 months old when we flew last year to Chicago from Las Vegas. On the ascent I got myself ready and latched him on when the pilot told the crew they were ready to take off (basically sitting at the end of the runway getting ready to accelerate into the takeoff).
On the descent, when they came around to pick up the drinks and trash was a good indication we were getting close. I tried not to nurse him too soon as my son would only nurse for about 12 minutes at a time on each side.
If you are not purchasing a separate seat for her I highly recommend wearing a sling, it was the best thing I had with me. Because my son had constant ear infections the doctor prescribed him medicine he had to take the morning of the flight which made him drowsy thus he nursed himself to sleep. Having him in the sling my arms were free for the entire trip and we both got some shut eye.