After School: First Response

My 4Yr Old Is Behind the Other 4 Year Olds in Her Pre K Class!! HELP!

First I must start off by excepting full responsibility for my daughter being behind the other 4 yr old kids in her Pre K class. Since my daughter was 3yrs old she was ready for school always telling me she didn't want to go to daycare anymore with the babies she wants to go to school with the big kids, however mommy was not ready to handle the steady constant routine of a school age child, especially since she was only 3 and the average 3 yr old is still at home with mom or dad or in daycare... Anyhow Our life has been unfortunately...