T.L.
18 is just a number, however it is also known as a legal age and average age of graduation. Also as an age of a young adult. You are his mother and of course you want what is best for him and he being the oldest of four he sort of sets the pace for the younger children. I think a summer job is a great
place for young adults to begin their work history. Then if his grades are held up in the fall part time after school might even be ok. I think he should have some freedom to make
the decision on his own. I've learned the hardest part of parenting in my opinion is letting our children make their own
mistakes, but it is neccessary for them to live their own lives at a certain point, we have to just step back alittle and let them makes their own decisions. I too was a young single mom and I think I did a fine job raising my kids. I don't think children of any age should be pressured too much
about anything, but more like encouraged and left to make their own choices, that's what life is all about, making choices, and living and learning from the consequences. Just
stay close to your children and love them unconditionally and
be there for them to come to no matter what!!