i agree with everyone, I;m sorry you feel hurt, I would J. say hes 3, my 4 year old does the same, pop pop doesnt punnish her, she tells her grandmom I love pop pop more, than mommy, then you, I respond with, I don';t care what order you love people in, all that matters is we all have a lot of love and love eachother, lets not try and measure it up, we love everyone in diferent ways, her grandmom responds how u J. describded and it adds to it, it puts guilt on a 4 year old, and they shouldn't have guilt at that age, she will tell my daughter, fine then I'll see my other grandbabies, or fine I'll hive catie your tooys, or she gets upset and leaves, my 4 year old loves her to death and always wants to visit but does act off of these reactions..I would say respond how you would if it was your kid, you wouldn't go crazy when they say I dpn't love you anymore, because you love them for them, thats what unconditioal love is, we are responsible for teaching them that, at that age they dont even know what love is....they cant measure it, he's measuring who'se more fun....so big deal pops a little more fun....but he will rely on you more....