S.H.
Ditto Dawn B.
She does better at school.
Not at home.
There is a disparity.
The stress at home may be affecting her. That is how kids 'express' stress/anxiety etc.
Kids can 'feel' how others think about them.
Next, no matter how long a child has been potty trained accidents WILL happen. NO child is perfect 100% about it every single day and night.
My Daughter's Preschool and Kindergarten and 1st Grade Teachers... ALL said, that "accidents" still happens at those ages/grades. Normal. THEY do not make a big deal out of it nor upon the child.
When my daughter was about that age... she regressed. It was because of stress. We did not scold/punish/make her feel bad about it. She was normal but had some stress... which we comforted her about. It took some time... but then one day the accidents stopped.
Keep in mind, my girl is now 7... and sometimes she holds her bladder TOO long and her panties get a little wet... NO biggie. Kids.
My son is 4... and he "thinks" he can hold it... but he cannot hold it for long... and he 'wets' his underwear too. Mind you, 'wetting' and an 'accident' are 2 different things.
Your girl... seems to have a harder time at home... with her bodily control... or it is an expression of stress or something bothering her... which is how kids, display these symptoms.
Can you talk with her? Not judge her or scold or lecture... but just let her talk and express anything she wants???? Doing stuff with kid and doing one-on-one things are good... but a child NEEDS to be able to express themselves too... and to verbally talk story, freely and just bond that way too. My daughter is like that. She is very.... acutely aware... of environmental and emotion based vibes.... so we often just talk story ... about whatever she wants to.
all the best,
Susan
all the best,
Susan