R.C.
I wasn't in any hurry to end the nursing to sleep routine, because it really didn't seem to affect the sleeping or falling asleep of my children. However, if you want to transition her, here's what worked for me once my kids turned 1 yr. I would allow them to nurse until very drowsy (they start to get that limp, rag doll look), then gently detach them from your nipple by inserting your index finger next to your nipple to break suction. Then, immediately, but very gently use your hand under their chin to close their mouth. Hold it there a few seconds until you are sure she is going to continue falling asleep. The pressure under her chin helps her not to miss the pressure on her gums from your breast. If she gets super upset, reattach and let her nurse a minute or 2 and then repeat once she's falling asleep again. Once you have her falling asleep easily in your arms, you can work on her falling asleep in the crib. No need to rush progress. Kids generally do best when change occurs slowly. She will someday be crawling into her own bed and putting herself to sleep and you may even miss this cuddling time before bed. Nurse Midwife Mom of 3