Gina - I don't believe that women should ever have to suffer during menopause or any other time of the month. Western medicine has created a market and need for all of their prescription drugs. The more drugs you can sell, the more profit there is, the more side affects, the more drugs that are needed.
There are lots of alternatives. Accupuncture, chiropractic, vitamins/minerals and other natural remedies. Granted you put your body into shock by having a complete hysterectomy, but there is still hope.
I'm hosting an event on November 15 from 2-4 PM at the Mall of America Grand Ballroom. A medical doctor will be talking about women's health and how to prevent breast cancer. It's free. Let me know if you want to attend. This may give you ideas of alternatives to drugs and side affects that require more drugs.
Best of luck,
D.