Sorry this is getting to you so late, but I just caught it & had to add to it. I had my little one in my room until about 3 months & then hearing about the "cry-it-out" method, thought we should try it. It was absolute torture for a few nights. Ripped me to pieces, so I understand when mother's decide against it. But, I'll tell u, it seems to be the best thing we could've done for our child. She is now 7, and goes right to bed most nights. Now, with our 2nd child (now 4), I put it off, because I knew what was coming. We waited a few months later. Wow!! What a difference. It was horrible. But, now, we're way past it & my girls go right to sleep (most of the time). I think another thing that has helped a good deal, is our bedtime routine. We end everynight with a book (well, most nights for the book, anyway), a prayer, hugs & we play bedtime music for them when we leave. I can understand your dilemma. As mother's we are instinctively protective and comforting of our children. But, as they grow, we have to go through a series of "letting go" hurdles (trust me, there'll be lot's more). But, sometimes, as I've learned, it's just better to just do it. Your sweet baby boy will love you & trust you completely, regardless if your in the same room as him. One of the reason's he may not be sleeping is that he can smell you in the room. So, it may be better for him, and for u to be in another room. Although, it could just be that he's not ready to sleep for long periods of time. My 1st slept thru at about 3 weeks, my 2nd waited till about 7 months! Each child is different. But, you want to do what you can to let your child & you, especially get the sleep you need. Trust me I know what it is to be sleep deprived. Many families opt for the whole family sleeping together & it works for them. But, for us it was sooo worth it to let them cry for just a few nights (even if it did seem the longest night of my life).