B.,
There is no such thing as the BEST antidepressant or anti-anxiety medication across the board for all people.
I'm not anti-med. Quite the opposite. However, finding the right med(s) in the right dosages and combinations is not as simple as ordering a burger. It takes someone really experienced in prescribing, monitoring, and adjusting psychotropic medications when these meds are used for long periods of time.
Please go back and work with your Dr. to find a combination that works for YOU! If your primary care dr. is the one prescribing, please consider going to an experienced psychiatrist to help you manage your psychotropic medication issues. Yes, PC drs. can prescribe the stuff, but they often do not have the extensive training and experience required to manage long-term use of psychotropic medications. This is especially true when medications "stop" working and things need to be changed and adjusted.
You can listen to other people's experiences all day long, and that's fine, but it doesn't mean those meds will work for you. People have unique responses to medications, and you just can't predict how these medications are going to work with you and your situation--- particularly if you are combining meds and you have other on-going medical conditions.
Medications aren't intended to give you energy, as your question suggested. They are intended to improve particular symptoms that allow your body to work properly, and when that happens, you have adequate energy to meet daily demands.
So, if you are relying on medications alone and have not experienced improvement in your symptoms, it's probably time to check into some lifestyle changes and talk therapies as well as your dr. tweaking your meds.
How is your sleep? Do you get adequate, restful sleep where you awaken refreshed and ready to meet the day's demands? How are your eating habits?
Are you eating a variety of healthful foods, or are you loading up on unhealthy carbs (this happens a great deal with people who are depressed and anxious and start to "stress eat"). Do you exercise regularly? This is also essential to keep your energy reserves regulated.
You don't give a lot of information, and I'm sorry if I'm reading into things, but something in your post leads me to believe you may need to be talking to a therapist and making some lifestyle changes in addition to taking meds to help manage your depression and anxiety. Just like in a case where a patient has diabetes. Yes, they can take meds as prescribed, but if they don't make lifestyle changes, the outcome isn't going to be optimal.
Remember, the best outcomes are when patients take an active role in their health and make necessary behavioral changes in ADDITION to taking medications.
J. F.