B.D.
The trend with my daughter and her friends is going towards a very small group going shopping. They get to choose just 2 or 3 friends, and the parents of the b-day girl give them each $20-$30 to spend; depending on how many friends and what works for your budget. They love to hit their favorite stores in the mall and buy Webkinz or earrings etc. They sometimes bring some of their own money too. When we're done shopping, they get dinner at McDonald's, or somewhere of your choice. If you want, they could even sleep over; all that costs you is snacks and donuts. Easily under $200. This obviously won't work if your daughter can't narrow down her list, but otherwise, it's been very popular. Good luck!