Okay, I would be irked at you too... BECAUSE you used ALL of your Sister's names... that she chose for her kids.
And you actually named YOUR kids, these names, that SHE had picked out for herself.
As you know, choosing a name for your baby is not easy and entails ALSO going through the process with your Husband and it is a very PERSONAL process. For your, baby.
To me, you took her names that she picked herself... that was for HER children.
It was special to her, to her Husband, and to them as a family.
Name choosing... is a process and very personal.
Yah, you are a name stealer.
Sure, names are up for grabs... but, you CONSISTENTLY took the names your Sister chose. Each time. And did not ask her first, out of respect, IF you can do that.
You just did it.
If you were my sister, I would REALLY be irked at you. Pissed. My Husband too.
I'm sorry, sure names are up for grabs. But, in this situation, and it has to do with your sister, I think, it was not nice. Of you.
Sure you can name your baby whatever you want.
BUT... you consciously chose the names, that your Sister had chosen/picked out for HER kids. THREE times. It does not matter if she had a boy or girl or not more children after that.
And, of ALL the names in the world... you COULD have thought of names, yourself. On your own. Not copying and using, the names she personally chose.
Obviously, those names your sister chose, were special to her.
I am irked, just reading this.
Geez.
Do you copy everything your sister does?
Maybe she said you damaged your relationship with her... because now she doesn't know if she can 'trust' you. And does not know, if you respect boundaries.
And because you tend to steal her thunder. Repeatedly.
She must be the sister that is overshadowed perhaps? By you?