Hi J.,
I am a 41 year old mother of 8 (yes EIGHT,his/hers and ours) kids and at your age was not overly religious either. Most churches won't baptise your children like take-out, they want you involved and they want you serious about your children's religious up-bringing, usually within THEIR church. My husband and I are Quaker and Episcopalian so there are big differences in our beliefs. Our children have been baptised Episcopalian. What I would suggest is that you sit down with the children's father (if he is in the picture) and discuss which faith they should be raised in and find a church that you all enjoy going to. If he doesn't care, then you go and find somewhere that feels like "home" to you. We have been going to Episcopal churches for years and it has been wonderful having a place to go AS A FAMILY. Discovering what you believe is important too. I have made some great friends, strengthened my own beliefs and solidified my marriage with my husband through my experience. I hope you will experience the same!
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