D.K.
C.,
My husband was raised Methodist and I was raised Lutheran (Missouri Synod). The Missouri Synod Lutheran churches are much more strict. I had already started attending Evangelical Lutheran churches since I felt more comfortable there because women can be more involved(Evangelical Lutheran churches even have female pastors, which is fantastic, in my opinion). When we checked out churches, we tried one Missouri Synod church and my husband felt that it was too "stuffy". Anyway, I am guessing that your husband if from a more strict Lutheran church. You may want to check out an Evangelical Lutheran church, because it may be a bit of a middle ground for both of you. There are quite a few in the area. I attend Grace Lutheran Church on Harlem (between Grand and Diversey). If you would like to chat about it feel free to send me a message and we could talk or I could answer any questions you might have.
Good Luck,
D.