S.,
I am about to reveal one of my big secrets. I used to wet the bed. Thing is, everyone said that I would grow out of it. By the time I was 15 and STILL doing it we realized that I had an actual problem. I went to a urologist, and he told me that my bladder is half the size it should be. He also said it was not as strong as it should be. To fix the second part he had me do excersizes. Basically, while using the bathroom I had to stop in the middle, hold it as long as I could, and then finish. Its not a fun excersize, but it seemed to help a little. But not completely. I would still wet the bed if I got too tired or stressed out. So I finally talked to my Dr about it. He put me on something called DDAP, and I was on the lowest dose there is. It really did help me. With in a few months I was able to stop taking it and not have any accidents. I know how mortifying it can be to wet the bed with your friends around. I honestly think it is the worst feeling in the world, because adults are understanding of it in children, but other childern are not. Let your child know that you love him no matter what, and that you are going to be there with him each and every step of the way to help him through this. I would definatly call the scout leader and talk to them about this. So yeah, I just thought that I would let you know, nine times out of ten they will grow out of it, but every now and then there could actually be a reason why it is happening. I would talk to your childs doctor again and see if there is anything else that you can do. Also, keep a log of when he wets the bed and what was going on with him in school, family, or friends. If he is stressing about something then you might see an increase in the bed wetting. Good luck to you both, and please let your little one know he is not alone.