My son and I were in a good friend's wedding. I had to pay for my dress to match the other bridal attendants and for my son's tux and shoes. She told me she didn't want a gift because she knew how much I was putting out for the other stuff. I bought her a beautiful card and was in charge of getting everyone to sign her memory book as the guests arrived. My son was the dashing and handsome boy on the groom's side.
It costs a lot of money to attend weddings and be part of the wedding party. In my friend's case, she made it clear that was our gift to her.
I also sang at her wedding.
So.....
I don't think you should get wound up about who walks with who.
That's just my opinion.
You say you're not jealous, so I don't think you should worry about who walks with who down the aisle. You and your husband are already married, you may be the tallest and in your opinion that would be more strategically pleasing to the eye....
My son has been in weddings and walked with people way taller than him.
It's not about that.
I just think that you should be very happy to be included in the wedding party and let it go as far as who walks with who.
You know who your husband will go home with.
Let the bride have her day.
I think if you say anything, you may get your way, but you might come off as more jealous than you hope to.
At my high school graduation....
I didn't walk with my boyfriend. I walked with my best male friend that I knew many years before I met my boyfriend. There was no jealousy, nor should there have been.
I'm just saying...if you get "stuck" walking with some cute hunk at a wedding, should your husband freak out?
I would hope not.
And it's not your day....you're married already.
I mean no offense, I just don't think you should make a big deal out of it.
You can find lovely wedding gifts that aren't expensive, but like I said, I was fortunate to have friends who told me ahead of time that the cost of our attire was all that was requested.
Just go and try to have fun!