L.N.
Hi K.,
I am a Behavior Analyst and I work in ABA with Autistic adults/children. I say all of that to say, an autistic child has sensory deprivation and aversions to some touch taste smell. Autism affects all of the senses to the point most people do not understand or "get it". I can understand your frustration with his eating habits, however you need to understand that this battle you are fighting is a no win situation. He is not going to give in. He is not going to eat new foods just because you are limiting his food intake. His mom is right for taking him to McDonads to get him something he will eat. You do not use food as a punisher for a behavior you are wanting to change. Any pediatrician, psychologist, psychiatrist will tell you the same thing. And, you can be reported to the department of children's services for neglect. Your understanding of autism must be limited and I am certain the mom has to work or her son would not be in your care. Quite frankly, your approach is very questionable. I would suggest that you find a psychologist/behavior analyst in your area to assist you in positve practices related to behavior change with children diagnosed with autism. I would also gain as much information as I could to assist your sister in helping this child. The national austism society is a great place to start. Here is their website. http://www.autism-society.org/site/PageServer If the child is gagging to the point he is vomitting I can assure you he is not faking his dislike for the food. Traditional parenting approaches goes out the window with children with autism. The best thing you can do for this childs mom is to get your hands on every piece of documentation that you can get your hands on to educate yourself about autism. The lack of knowledge only causes further harm when you are an instrumental part of this childs life.
L.
Behavior analyst mother of 22 month old daughter.