Christmas Traditions - Round Lake,IL

Updated on December 01, 2010
J.K. asks from Waukee, IA
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Hi Moms...
I'm looking for xmas traditions to start with my family. Here is a little background: we are a family of 5 - mom, dad, 4yo, 2yo, and 8 month old and we just moved to an area with no family a few months ago. Extended family is coming in town early December for an xmas celebration. So come Christmas Eve and Christmas Day, it will only be our small immediate family. I'm looking for ideas that we can do and maybe even start some traditions. One tradition already stands - Santa visits in the middle of the night and the kids wake up to presents under the tree Christmas morning. Any ideas or traditions you do with just your small immediate families? Thanks!

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M.L.

answers from Houston on

We read about the birth of Christ on Christmas Eve. We bake cookies while listening to Christmas music and deliver it to neighbors. We adopt an angel from an angel tree and go gift shopping for him/her and take the donations as a family to the center they need to go. The kids pick out a toy and donate it to Toys for Tots.

This year, my oldest son was asking about how real Santa is and how he ties in on Christ's birthday. We got this book called, "A Special Place for Santa" and it explains it wonderfully, so now we will read it every year at the beginning of the Christmas season to help us remember.
http://www.amazon.com/Special-Place-Santa-Legend-Time/dp/...

We also have a night where we watch favorite Christmas movies, drink hot chocolate and eat popcorn, all camped out in the living room. We decorate the tree together while listening to Christmas music.

Oh, we don't so this, but know several families who do... on Christmas Eve, they each open a special gift, matching pajamas. Then they all wear them to bed and open their gifts wearing their new pjs.

We always open on gift on Christmas Eve, usually it's one from a neighbor or grandparent or something.

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F.C.

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how about a new pair of PJ's to open on Christmas Eve :) To this day I love to get my new PJ's from my Grandmother, she tried one year to not give us grandkids new pj's and we all told her (the oldest 5 were in our teens) that we want our PJ's. So this has continued and now that most of us are married and/or have kids - we all get PJ's and LOVE them:)

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D.P.

answers from Dallas on

I love to bundle my family up, make a pot of hot cocoa and hop into the car to drive around and look for Christmas light displays. A little pop corn is fun for the kiddos too! A lot of towns also offer carriage-drawn rides that are a nice tradition but tend to be a bit pricey.

Another tradition that I love is the Christmas Eve Book, your child can open one present on Christmas Eve and that gift is a book. You get to read it to them before bed and it gets them ready for Christmas morning. To read more about this tradition and see some great holiday book ideas, check out the link below
http://www.ittakesavillagedallas.com/It_takes_a_village/B...

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J.P.

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We all pile into the car in our pajamas with hot cocoa and drive around looking at Christmas lights. The kids love it and I know they will look back on it fondly....and so will I!

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L.S.

answers from Fort Collins on

We each get to open one present on xmas eve. Everyone gets new xmas jammies (including mom and dad!) and the kids usually get a xmas-themed book (the night before xmas, the grinch who stole xmas, etc). We all get in our jammies, take pictures, read the story...maybe watch an xmas movie (charlie brown, christmas carol, etc), then put out cookies and carrots for santa and the reindeer, then go to bed so he can come!

Xmas morning stockings get opened first. We try to open gifts fairly slowly - taking time between gifts so the kids can see and appreciate what they received. Ex: last year my son got blocks.... we opened them and played with them for a while before he opened another gift.

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S.C.

answers from Fort Wayne on

Every Christmas Eve we make a treat for Santa and set it out under the Christmas tree. We also write him a Thank You note. It just says Dear Santa: Thank your for the gifts. Here are some goodies.I hope you like them." Or something like that. My husband writes a letter back to the kids and signs it "Santa" My 3 year old gets a kick out of it. :)

My sister gives her kids new pajamas to wear to bed on Christmas Eve. They open them right after dinner.

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D.P.

answers from Pittsburgh on

• Leave out cookies and milk for Santa and a few carrots for Rudolph (we had a carrot emergency last year--seems mom forgot to get carrots and we had to borrow some baby cuts from our neighbor!)
• Read Twas the Night Before Christmas in the evening with hot chocolate drinks.
• Take a ride to look at lights
• Big breakfast after gift opening

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I.L.

answers from Alexandria on

Christmas eve day we bake and decorate cookies for santa, Christmas eve night my family goes and looks at the Christmas lights before it's off to bed! Christmas day we have a big special breakfast after we open presents. I make something sticky sweet and full of sugar that I would not normally give my girls for breakfast! (cinnamon rolls, sticky bread, etc)
I love that you get to start traditions that will feel so special to your children growing up. My girls are 5 and 2. For us on tradition we are holding fast to is that we don't travel at Christmas. While they are young it is important to me that they go to bed in their own beds waiting for santa and run out to the tree they decorated on to see what he brought them on Christmas morning!
My kids are also into anything crafty, have fun with the whole season making snowflakes to put in the windows, paper chains to count down to Christmas, etc.
Also, look in your area for local Christmas celebrations. Our church has a different Christmas related event just about every week until Christmas. PJ's with the Pastor reading the Christmas story, the Christmas program, Cookie social, are all fun things I am happy to make tradition!

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M.M.

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One of the traditions we do is a jesse tree- you can click on this link to learn about what it is

http://www.catholicculture.org/culture/liturgicalyear/act...

We use our regular christmas tree as our jesse tree, so it is bare all through advent- exept for our jesse tree ornaments that we hang on each day. Every night we turn off all the lights and light our advent wreath. Then we say a fun prayer and sing "oh come oh come emanuel". Next, we read a short bible verse and then hang on our ornanment for that day. That is how we do it but you could make it as elaborate or simple as you like. And then on Christmas eve, we decorate the tree fully with everything, in order to prepare for Christmas. The boys love it! It also is something they look forward to besides opening presents. My mom actually made little wooden hand painted ornaments for us when we started this tradition 3 years ago - so that makes it even a little more special!

The possibilities are endless for starting new traditions at Christmas time and I am sure you will get plently of wonderful ideas from all the moms here! I hope you find one that is right for your family!

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S.H.

answers from Spokane on

We have many Christmas traditions, here are just a few:
1. everyone opens one gift after church on Christmas Eve (always new Christmas jammies from Grandma).
2. leave out cookies and milk by the fireplace for Santa and carrots and oatmeal outside for the reindeer.
3. Santa fills stockings - 1st thing kids go for in the am
4. Santa's gifts are always wrapped (put together first if need be) in Santa wrapping paper. The only gifts that are wrapped in Santa paper and put under the tree for Christmas morning.
5. Daddy always reads "Twas the Night Before Christmas" before putting them to bed on Christmas Eve.

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K.G.

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Do not miss out on "The Elf on a Shelf" tradition! We got ours this year (a mysterious package from Santa left on the doorstep on Thanksgiving.) The elf comes with a book about what it all means but essentially he watches the kids and then leaves each night to report back to Santa. Then in the morning he's always in a different spot which the kids love to look for. Even keeps them "in check" a bit. So nice!

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N.P.

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*we buy a playmobil advent calendar and the kids (11 and 8 now) LOVE opening it every night in December.
*When my oldest was 4 I told her I was Santa. Now don't freak! What I did was explain that anyone who secretly puts presents under the tree or in a stocking is Santa when they do that. So I took her to the dollar store and gave her enough money to buy one thing for each family member and I stayed out of her way and didn't help her as she picked out an item per person. I didn't help her pay. I didn't look in the bag even. When we got home I had her put on a Santa hat and "be Santa" as she delivered each thing she picked to each person's stocking. When they found out who Santa really is (when they were almost 10 and 7 1/2 yrs old) they were not mad at all (it was the Easter Bunny they figured out, then realized the rest). In fact they thought it was special. I felt this tradition helped them see Christmas as giving which to us is what the season is about.
*we gave the kids an ornament each year and labeled them w/permanent marker so one day those ornaments will go to each person. So some say "Elise, Santa 2002" and others say "Grandma and Grandpa 2003" or "Florida trip 2009"
*The only candy they get in their stocking is a Chocolate Santa (Easter is only a chocolate bunny) and they can eat that whenever they want.
*First xmas for each child I made handprint ornaments with model magic.
*cookies and milk for Santa - when Elise was 2 she was scared of Santa coming in the house so we had to put them outside, they froze, that was memorable. LOL.
*All the presents are wrapped except for ONE present that is from Santa. They get to chose ONE thing that their heart desires (within limits) to get from Santa. I made sure Santa always got that one thing because I didn't want disappointment. The rest was up to mom and dad and came from Mom and Dad (cause hey I wanted credit for what work I did)

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A.C.

answers from Savannah on

We do buy a new Christmas themed book every year, but loved a previous post suggesting to give it on Christmas Eve and read it before bed.
Our traditions are as follows: after enjoying Thanksgiving day, we take all the Christmas stuff down before bedtime. We have a pilgrim hat that we made out of felt that has different countries in it where we know a missionary, and we draw the name out of the hat on which country/missionary we will be learning about this year. Instead of buying friends around here gifts, when they don't really need much of anything, we use the money to make a care package, from money, to little gifts, to real American toilet paper and things someone might miss (like my friend loves peanut butter, or whatever) and we write notes to let them know that their work is remembered and they are loved even though they are far away. We learn about the country whoever we are sponsoring is in throughout the Christmas season, and they can email us recipes or holiday traditions from that country that I print on Christmas paper. I go out at night when everyone goes to bed and do Black Friday shopping, but am home by the time everyone is waking up. Day after Thanksgiving is the day we begin putting up decorations and the tree. We get ONE new ornament a year, each, something to do with an interest, hobby, or vacation of the year, or to remind us of a joke between the family, etc. So while decorating we can remember and laugh about previous years and plan for this year as well. I like the idea of doing Christmas crafts during the season, together, but my oldest is JUST getting to the age where he could do things like that with me. We do tie a green string across the kitchen bar (a central location) and hang Christmas cards that we receive on it. When decorations are up, we sit back and relax and enjoy what we've done, then get ready for the parade downtown. We bring a thermos of "kids hot chocolate" (something cheap like swiss miss is fine for them) and then another thermos of "grownup hot chocolate" (Ghiradelli spiked with peppermint schnapps and Godiva liqueur). After the parade and kids are in bed, we watch It's a Wonderful Life and rest. During the season, we have different charity projects, and enjoy all the seasonal activities we can (tree lighting ceremony and caroling in the community, a hockey game or something that involves us seeing ice and/or snow, our neighborhood Christmas festival, an event we put on at the Children's hospital, etc), and of course the kids take pictures with Santa, and we drive through neighborhoods looking at lights. We watch a Christmas movie every Friday evening (take turns picking them out), and while the movie is on we play games, or fill out cards, or whatever. On Christmas Eve, I try to make it "Australia night" or "Tanzania night" (or wherever the location is for the year) where I make at least one dish native to that country, and we read the Christmas story from the Bible, and talk about how God so loved the WORLD.....it's our way of keeping a little more of a world view in mind, even while we have fun with our own stuff. Then we lay out Christmas cookies that my son helps me make on a special Santa plate, and carrots too. I give the boys a bubble bath (to help them relax) and this year we will incorporate reading the new Christmas book (as suggested from a previous post) at bedtime. In the morning there are gifts and the stockings are filled. I just do orange sweet rolls (pillsbury) for breakfast because it's something that we can do quickly while everyone is checking out gifts. We go to the movies in town square and out to eat late afternoon/early evening, just to get out and about, after a day of hanging out together and playing with toys and calling or skyping loved ones all over the world. We take the tree and decorations down January 1 after NYE celebrations. This may seem long, but all these things are tradition to us!

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C.F.

answers from Chicago on

One tradition I started many years ago with my family was we all sleep in new Christmas PJ's on Christmas Eve. One year I even made them. I have now started the tradition with my granddaughter.

A.G.

answers from Houston on

growing up my dad always drove around looking at xmas lights and looking for "santa in the sky"(while my mom stocked the tree with gifts), youll usually see an airplane of some sort that can be mistaken in the night sky. we opened all our presents on xmas eve because we were one of santas first stops. Then the next day we'd go to some families house, have dinner and open more presents.there were always unshelled nuts and fruit in the stockings, and the stockings always went last.

With my family i changed it a bit,day after thanksgiving we decorate while the rest of the world shops, we put up the tree, the kids help with the ornaments, and we drink hot cocoa regardless of the temperature, a new picture frame ornamnent isthen filled with the most current pic of the past year and my oldest makes ornaments out of various objects, we make garlands too out of popcorn, or loops of construction paper. at xmas time go to great g,mas on xmas eve, have a nice dinner and dessert, santa visits her house first, then at our house we put out cookies and milk and the kids put on their new nightgowns, and in the morning santa visits us. we open presents while having cinnamon rolls..... stockings last. then that night we have a party with our friends, perhaps a dinner, definitely games, and maybe a white elephant gift exchange. We always have a spread that involves nice cheeses ,mustards and caviar.

great question, it put me in the holiday mood.

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