M.W.
I met my husband when my daughters were 1 and 3 yrs. I was even still breastfeeding my 1 year old when we met. You have to hire or find some kind of baby sitter though or you will never be able to build a relationship. I lived with a friend for awhile after leaving my ex and we traded baby sitting. Maybe you could set something like that up with a friend. I met my husband at a nightclub. I felt like one of the older ones there and no longer flat tummied after 2 kids, but I just got over it and went. A few drinks can really help you feel more comfortable, not that I'm suggesting drinking or anything, but . . . My husband was one of the breakdancers. I used to teach gymnastics and thought it was really cool. I went over and started a conversation. That was key. I started conversation with him about one of his interests and he got to show off something he was proud of. He liked me for that right off.