Communication.
Communicate with her and express TO her your feelings and love for her.
Every kid has different personalities, but they still all need a Mommy's love.
If you don't want Meghan to feel less important... then just TELL her. Tell her "I love you and you are your own person. I'm proud of you. I don't want you to feel less important, because you are so unique and I really admire that in you. So what can I do that would help?"
OR, consider that your Meghan does not even feel like an odd-ball or less important. I mean, did she actually tell you, that she feels less important? Maybe that is just your own.... apprehensions about her. That maybe 'you' feel she feels she is less important? Maybe she doesn't even feel that way.
And, just carve out some time with her. Doing what SHE likes. Show an INTEREST in her and her own proclivities and talents and thoughts/feelings. A kid, really needs that. They need to feel "accepted" for WHO THEY ARE.
That is key
Or just ask her "What do you want me to do, to help you? Even if that is just hanging out."
Communication.
With each child, it will be different.
Maybe you worry about Meghan, but she is just fine.
Ask her.
And per Maddie, maybe it is not that she needs more "attention" but that... she is just more communicative and able to express herself more.
Just because someone is expressive, it does not mean they are an attention getter.
Sometimes, the more silent person, needs more.
Know your child and accept them for who they are.
Then, show an interest, in the child for who they are.
That is a way to bond with that child.
That is what my late Dad did with his kids. And we all knew we were different from each other, but that he bonded with each of us differently... per OUR personality. He really just knew us and accepted us for who we were. That is golden.