I have 4 kids, one being a 12 yr old boy, his hormones are going crazy, my once sweet little boy is now acting completely different. One lady told me that her son was the same way until he was about 17 or 18 so get prepared its gonna be a long ride. What I do now, I try to get him alone and tell him ok you hate me so much, write down why...tell me why, what did I do...it has been, so far that there are other issues that need to be addressed. He feels lonely, problem at school or so much attention is going to the other kids, he feels like he is being left out. Oh man the guilt. I tell him everyday over and over how much I love him and someday he will understand. Some nights, even if it is a school night after the kids are in bed we stay up late and just talk...or watch tv.(even if he doesn't want to at first)I know its hard...but hang in there. Everyday is a new adventure, but the I hate you really hurts. If I can help please let me know!