I can completely understand why you are mad, and yet, I am just like your husband. I can't seem to get anywhere on time. I used to be habitually late getting my daughter to preschool, and picking her up late, until I was slapped with a late fee! Her school charges $1 a minute for every minute you are late, and I ended up owing them an extra $50 one month. Anyway, I deserved it, and it has really made me try a lot harder to get there on time. I can't pinpoint an exact reason for my lateness, but it is a lot of "I forgot" type stuff, and running back into the house, or getting distracted by things (I have A.D.D. Does your husband have A.D.D?) Maybe you could charge him a late fee yourself! For every minute the kids are late to school, make him pay you, if not in money, in house chores or something. Just a thought. He is in control of himself--he is an adult--and he CAN get the kids there on time...this is what I had to tell myself, and it has worked...so far! :)