A.P.
A nice appetizer would be hummus with pita triangles or vegetables. Its easy and delicious. I don't know any kahlua drinks but I have a few suggestions that are fruity and don't have a strong liquor taste.
Washington Apple on the rocks - 1/2 oz. Crown Royale, 1 1/2 oz. Apple Pucker, splash of cranberry juice cocktail
Bay Breeze (I think) - vodka, cranberry juice cocktail, splash of pineapple juice over ice
Orange Creamsicle - orange vodka, sweet orange juice, sprite over ice