Hi T.,
Hang in there, it will get better.
My son had tubes put in when he was about 20 mths. He has cronic ear infections from the time he was 2 mths old. He would get them every 1-2 months, like clock work.
Then the doctor put him on preventive antibiotics, which he needed to take every day for a year. This was to prevent the infection from occurring as frequently. Well, it worked, slightly. He continued to get ear infections every 3-4 months.
Finally, the doctor suggested ear tubes. I completely understand you being stressed out. I to was in that situtation.
The procedure/recovery didn't take too long, maybe an hr or so, trying to remember 10 yrs ago. When we got to the hospital, he was given a bed and some medicine to calm him. I look back and think how funny he was. He looked like a little drunk man. I would hold him up to stand and his legs were all loose like wet noodles. He laughed to relieve some of the stress.
Once they wheeled him away to the operating room. It seemed like forever. However, as soon as he was in recovery, they called me in. He was still a little sleepy. I was held him and rocked him, until the medicine wore off. Once it did, he was back to his old happy self.
The tubes worked for my son. He is now 12 years old and has only had 1 ear infection since they were put in. The tubes have fallen out of his ears, which is normal. The doctor said that once the ear canals develope the tubes would be pushed out automatically.
T., I hope that my story will be of some help to you. Sorry it is so long. I wish you the best of luck with your daughter. I know that everything will be ok.
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Have a Great Day.
G. Martinez