Hi J.,
My name is J. Simpson, IBCLC, CIIM and I am a local Lactation Conultant in the Sac area. I work with many moms dealing with what you are on and I'd love to talk with you to see how I can help. (no charge!) You can call me at ###-###-#### or go to my website to learn more about me www.breastfeedingnetwork.net.
I have been through the elimination diet before and ended up having to be dairy free for quite a while as my 2nd son was highly allergic to dairy (resulting in several symptoms including eczema) so I have an idea what you are dealing with personally as well as professionally.
The key to elimination diets is to eliminate the foods 100% (which can be a challenge!) for a minimum of 2 weeks. There is some debate as to if this is too long or long enough for all foods we eat to clear out of our bodies...so 2 wks is a good place to start. You have to read labels so as not to accidentally eat hidden sources of dairy, wheat, etc.
Eczema can be caused by outside sources as well - soaps, detergents for clothing, lotions, etc. The topical steroids can relieve baby's discomfort tremendously and while I am 100% with you on the desire to not need to use them, continue to do so until you have tracked down the offender/s.
I may have a line on a couple of naturopathic Dr.s. Give me a call so we can talk and I'll find those names for you.
I also have a mommy group that meets every Friday Morning at 10. We'd love to have you join us! Many of the moms in the group have been through similar situations as yours...the support could be very helpful for you. And all your kids are welcome... We are meeting at my home this morning as the air quality is not safe for the little ones (or big ones for that matter!) and if you'd like to join us please give me a call - ###-###-####.
Good luck and take care! You are not alone...
Warmly,
J.