S.D.
One of my daughters had eyes that crossed in. She had her first surgery at 5 and the second at 6 (for a slight over correction) We tried glasses and the patch and eye excersises. Nothing else worked. Our surgeon advised us that it is best to get the surgery young so that the eye muscles will continue to grow with the child having a better success rate. We could not be more happier with the results. We were told that she would be in glasses for the rest of her life. After the second surgery, her vision is 20/20. She would get questioned about her eyes by the other children and her twin would stand up for her. Now no one even notices that anything was ever off. She did very well with the surgeries. The worst thing we had to deal with was making her open her eyes and use them. We let her keep them closed with a wash cloth laid on her face for the first day. Then the next day no wash rag. The third day she had to open her eyes at certain times and before she knew it, she was opening them more on her own.
I hope that this has helped you.
S.