My hubby and I work opposite hours. There are some days we do not see each other awake. Our DD gets one-on-one time with hubby before school, and as he volunteers at school, he sees her two times a week during the course of the school day.
DD gets mommy time for about one hour before it is bedtime after mommy gets home from work. Hubby is not home, so I go to sleep, too.
I'm somewhat conditioned to wake my hubby comes home tired, so I do my mampedia time at 1 a.m. I guess that's me time, if you want to call it that.
As a teacher, I often have to send my hubby out with DD on Sat or Sun so I can check papers. In that way, they get one-on-one time. I always get the impression that my "me" time is spent on my students rather than myself or my family, so it's hard at times.
We eat two or three nights a week as a family, depending upon my hubby's schedule.
Friday is Girls' Night Out with DD and mommy. As DD is tired from the school week, lately she wants to stay home and play together. Sometimes we go to a 4:30 movie.
As best I can, I try to make Sunday a family day, unless I need to get some stuff done.
Hubby and I average about two dates a year. That's because we do not get a lot of family time together, and going on a date when that is the case seems unfair to DD. She's already had three nights of sitters for the week. Luckily, we love DD; we make the most of family time.
The me time I miss the most is exercise time. My routine before DD was to come home early, take a long, vigorous walk, then do planning and paperwork while hubby was at work in the evenings. My DD does not make working at home feasible. So now I stay until about 7:00 p.m. and then eat at home with her and then prep for bed. Too tired to stay awake to work after she's in bed (after reading bedtime stories, which makes me drowsy, too). I can't leave DD to go for a walk at 8:30 at night, and I've already had a sitter at the house to stay at work late, so no exercise for me. I awaken to the next day.
I wish we would wise up in this country and call 30 hours full-time. Then, employ more people, as there will still need work to be done, so more people will be needed, rather than working one person 50-60 hours. And then we all could have exercise time and family time. I wish my income allowed me to follow that schedule, but it does not.