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in my case, i would not have made it through the first year without my family. we did a family party at my mom's with cake, ice cream, and presents. it was tons of fun. personally i feel like giant first birthday bashes are a huge waste of money. not to mention silly - we all know a one year old couldn't care less! love the idea that this is a celebration of making it through the first year, too! whatever you do it's for YOU so just keep that in mind.