K.A.
I do not live in your area otherwise I would recommend who we take our kids to.
I agree with Livinglife&LovingIt F. Going to a pediactric dentist is absolutely worth it. Nitrous Oxide (laughing gas) is what they've used when my children needed work and sometimes they don't even use that. They consider how the kids are doing at the moment and make the call then. You also want a dentist that will treat the tooth and keep it in the mouth whenever possible. You do not want one that is quick to simply pull the tooth. A child keeps some of those teeth until they are in upwards of 12 years old. They need them os their jaws grow correctly. They need them for correct speech. Spending money to treat the baby teeth can help prevent expensive orthodontics and damaged adult teeth.
My son has genetically weak teeth so we've had work done on probably every tooth in his mouth at this point. We went through 2 other dentists before finding who we see now. It's possible my daughter may have the same genetic problem. She's already had 2 cavities filled before she was 2 in molars she had only cut 4-6 months before at most. They came in with defects right from the beginning. Perhaps try looking on Yelp for pediatric dentists and call their office to ask them what their policies are.
Best of luck!