I think you're going to love it here! Winston is a great place! There are loads of good neighborhoods. My recommendation is to look at as many as you can, but stay focused on distance to your husband's work, stores, etc. People say everything in Winston is 10 minutes away and that's great, but we know lots of people who moved to town and got circled around with the realtor and ended up way out by themselves. They liked the house and the price but didn't take into consideration the rest of the community. So keep that in mind! In central Winston, the most family-friendly neighborhood is "Ardmore", but also parts of "Buena Vista". Most people rule that out because it's expensive, but we live on the edge of it near Reynolds High School with houses that are pretty reasonable in price and the location, schools, surrounding parks are unbeatable.
Many Winston folks with kids also like the communities in Clemmons/Lewisville.
I saw a recommendation for Ardmore Baptist Preschool. That's where my daughter goes too and we LOVE it - can't say enough about it! She started at 2 and their little toddler teachers are sooo great!