M.D.
Yes. I had gastric bypass October 25, 2012. I am down 140 pounds. I still have 90 to go...yes, I had gotten that out of hand. I am 6'1, so I carried my weight fairly well and had no health problems, but that wouldn't have stayed that way for long.
I started looking at surgery in 2009. My mo had it in December 2009 and had a HORRIBLE experience. She lost all of her weight in 6 months and was TOO skinny. The surgery was successful in terms of getting her weight off and clearing up a lot of her medical problems, but it also caused more problems for her. However, she is still now at a healthy weight and more active than she was in the last 10 years before surgery.
I had mine because like you, I had tried everything out there. Nothing worked for me long-term. I started working with my PCM January 2012 and met with my surgeon for the first time in August 2012. I had met the basic requirements for my insurance (TriCare) by working with a nutritionist from January-July. Once I met with the surgeon, there were so many more people I had to meet with. They included: sleep study, endoscopy, gall bladder sonogram, tons of blood work, cardiologist, psychologist, etc..I know there are more. I told my surgeon if I wasn't approved, I'd at least know I was healthy!
One thing to keep in mind is that WLS is NOT the easy way to lose weight. Yes, I probably would still be 140 pounds heavier if I hadn't done it, but it is a LOT of work on your part even after you have the surgery. It's done laproscopically now mostly, but I'd still say it was a good 4-6 weeks before I felt "fine" afterwards. It probably was a little longer than that before it didn't hurt to sleep on my side. My older sister got married November 17th last year and I was a bridesmaid...I was extremely exhausted because I couldn't eat or drink much to keep my energy up.
It's hard finding out what you can and cannot eat once you can eat again. I got sick a lot. Sometimes that one bite or drinking too soon after you eat will make you really sick. I spend two weekends in a row in bed from drinking too much water. Go figure!
You have to live on protein drinks (something I have let slip and need to get back to). So find one you can stomach now. You will need t o give up caffeine and soda for a LONG time. I had given up soda already, but drink latte's. I will still have a latte sometimes, but with skim milk, no whip, and sugar free when possible.
I am happy to give you the pros and cons to gastric bypass if you are looking in to having it. There are a lot on both sides and I just think it's extremely important to realize it is not an easy process at all. It's hard mentally and physically, just as it would be to do it on your own.
Would I do it again though? Absolutely.