K.J.
I know the feeling of being sick with a little one... I was in and out of the hospital off and on for 6 months...each visit for a week at a time...while my son was just one years old... I had ulcerative coloitis...I had my colon removed...had a temp. iliosotmy and reversed...
From what I understand gallbladder surgery is done laperscopically... and it is a breeze compaired to my surgery. I would go see the doctor you saw for the gall stones issue... If he/she can't help see a gastro doc.
I hope that you get help soon so you can feel better...
I will pray for you!
K. J.