hi there. I also have a 9 month old and I DO NOT feed her what I eat. I just feel like her tummy is still to sensitive for adult foods.
My daughter also has allergies to food already. I gave her egg yolks to eat and her whole face turned red and itchy. It was a nightmare, I felt horrible because I felt like I gave her to much. (she LOVED it) I should have tested it first and then the reaction wouldn't have been so terrible. It took about 30 minutes and a small dose of Benadryl to fix the problem.
Anyway, when I introduced food, I started with white rice. I knew she wasn't allergic to that, and it was great practice for her motor skills. I also give her tiny cubes of potatoe. (that I grew in my garden!) I can't give her any pasta (she is allergic to wheat) except for rice pasta. I'm afraid to try anything with milk produce in it (yogurt, cheese) because I'm afraid she will have another reaction. Plus, she is just getting used to small pieces. Once in awhile she will even gag on the bigger pieces of potato.
My situation is a little different, with all of my daughters allergies (my 4 year old has food allergies as well)
I just think that 9 months is still very young and their bodies are not ready for spices and milk products. If your not supposed to give them milk until 12 months, then why is it ok to give them cheese and yogurt? I'm just going to stick to the organic jar food, and slowly introduce bland food. That's just me. As the months go by, I will certainly try new things for her, and hopefully get no allergic reactions. (she has a doctors appointment for allergies next week) The doctor said it was ok to try meat at the age of 9 months, but I just think it is to tough on their tummies.
I will be reading your responses to get more ideas as well. Take care!!