Hi, K.:
I am a California-licensed cosmetologist writing just to give you some advice. Be very careful who you go to out here as cosmetologists have to go for less hours in Florida than some states and no longer have a practical (actually doing the procedures) exam along with the written exam to get their license. Also, from talking to different stylists since moving to FL seventeen years ago (I do hair now only for friends and family and keep up my license for the products...I keep current with industry magazines and industry web sites), there is no push in schools out here to have people learn to work on a variety of types of hair, ethnic hair, etc. That is a shame! We had to work on ALL types of hair, and, I believe, that was a very good thing to not limit us and to give us more of a true understanding about the differences in hair. However, all of this said, THERE ARE STILL VERY GOOD STYLISTS OUT HERE, but you have to search for "career stylists" verses "job stylists"!!!
My recommendation to you (after going on my tangent...LOL) is to have someone run a smoothing solution on your hair, to make it more manageable and attractive. I'm not saying to do something that is not YOU (re: stick straight!) or something with a horrible upkeep (some of the more intense straightening products), but something that helps in keep the "crazy curly unruly" hair more wavy, uniform, and pretty. Matrix has a product (the name escapes me right now) that I have used on my niece's Latin unruly hair a few times, and it did a beautiful job. Also, her hair can take a curl with irons or blowing drying techniques and use a straightening iron if she wants a straight look (unlike other smoothing products that do so much damage you cannot use irons...or simply will not take a curl and will fall stick straight). If she air-dries her hair, it is simply wavy and shiny.
I hope this helps a little! Good luck to you!
D. C.