My daughter, now 16, also pulled, occasionally still does. Make sure she's not ingesting the hair, which can become serious. She may have some sensory issues. Give her toys/items/balls/games (squishy things)that she can have in her hands to stimulate her fingers/hands, and keep them active. There are vibrating pens,toys,crayons, etc. We used to fill her toybox with beans,and let her play with them using measuring cups. You can place them in a sock for even more fun. Also there are massage items,animals shapes/toys especially out around the holidays, that if you use throughout the day, would be soothing for her and satisfy that stimulation need. We would massage my daughters back, arms, legs, at various times in the day which helped.This also gives her attention, as you're focusing on her. Try braiding her hair, tying it back, as it makes it more difficult to pull.Baths during the day may be soothing for her too. If it continues definitely mention this to you pediatrician. Avoid medication, as statistics show they don't help.
Let us know how she does. L.
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