Is there some play or concert coming up that you could take her to? A special treat from Mom or Dad to take her and only her to the upcoming theatre play or concert where her fav band is playing.
You said something about a charm bracelet. Maybe some earrings? Or a ring? James Avery? Less money put into a ring than into a whole charm bracelet.
In my search for items for my 9 yr old neice, I came across the "Wreck this Journal" on amazon.com . It had great reviews and sounded like a lot of fun. I didn't get it for her b/c it sounded like she needed to be a little older, maybe 10-12. Although I am tempted to get it for myself!
(Honestly, I'm a bit jealous. I am 31 yrs old and don't have an ipod, nor a kindle, nor a laptop, nor an iphone.)