J.W.
I know his family pretty much treats my kids like any other grandkid. There are times when things are different but it is not so much a fault in attitude it is J. they don't know my kids as well as the grandkids so they may not do that impulsive oh so and so would love this. How could they, they J. don't know that one of my kids would love something.
I think this becomes a problem when the parents start seeing things that aren't there. Like Troy has a niece who is not biologically related, she is his sister in laws daughter but his brother adopted her when she was young. They all treat her like blood but for some reason mom always sees things that J. aren't there. She planted enough seeds of injustice in that girl's head that the girl sees them too and as a teen acted out like you would not believe. No one's life is perfect but so much of the damage was done by mom. :(
Oh they have two daughters that are both theirs. All three daughters are treated the same. Thing is mom is great, she is sweet and loves her daughters it is J. like she was so worried the oldest wouldn't be treated the same she saw differences that weren't there.
I really have no idea what my kids would call Troy's parents. I J. realized they spend so much time playing with their cousins, which is what they call Troy's nieces and nephews they have never addressed them beyond, excuse M..
They have always been treated the same. The first Christmas was kind of odd but then Troy and I had only been dating a little over a month. His parents still bought them gifts but it was like they generic stuff because they didn't know them. Last Christmas I was told enough of this going through Troy, send us a wish list! :)