T.F.
I had a complete hysterectomy, bikini line incision, everything removed back in 2001 and IT WAS THE BEST THING I EVER DID.
As far as recovery time, It was not that bad. The first few days after the surgery I was sore and careful but I was at my daughter's track meet at the 2 week point. I do think your frame of mind and how in shape you are physically has a lot to do with recovery. I am active and I don't let something keep me down for long. I followed all Dr rules and was fine. I know some people who would fully use a 6-9 week recovery time if the Dr mentioned that time frame just to have an excuse to use it.
I never had the complications I'd heard about, however, I educated myself and was proactive.... You can hardly see my scar, I did not have the weight gain, I am on the HRT patch, a positive side effect was my boobs grew and they are still a perky 34DD! Can't beat that for a good side effect. I never had the "swelly belly" they mention because my dr had me wearing a binder around my waist from the time I left the OR. I wore that thing for weeks to make sure I would be ok. I am still my same size 2 and wear the same clothes, except for tops :).
My friend had the type of hysterectomy you are talking about and she was made an easy recovery as well. However, both of us only have 1 child and our daughters were in 1st grade when we had the surgery.
I got a lot of information from the website www.hystersisters.com
It is a straightforwrd site, women speaking from experience of going through it and questions from women about to go through it. Some women find the site scary. It depends on how you look at things..... can you objectively look at info or not?
I do believe the hardest part of it was was the waiting until surgery day.