The DJ we had for our wedding almost 9 years ago was a douche too. My husband is Mexican so there was a lot of Mexican relatives at our party. They brought in their Mexican music and asked for it to be played - way later in the night. They told me the DJ would not play it for them. So I (the bride) went up to him to tell him to play the CD and he says back at me "I already played it" Which I never heard, so I'm not sure if he was right or not but beside the point. I said back at him "Well, PLAY it again" LOL Why argue with the bride? Anyway, he did a couple other things I only found out after the wedding. Being rude to guests, my mom and so on....
Funny thing is I actually ran into him the year before I was married at my friends party and he was kinda rude to me. I requested a song and he stated the bride and groom only want their music played. I accepted this, but found out later from my friend, that was untrue.
Ugh...anyway I never said anything but always regret I didn't. I'm not sure if he is still working for the company I used. But I told all my friends not to use him and request someone else.
If you think it could bother you 9 years later....lol...then I'd speak up. Even if you weren't the one directly in charge of paying the DJ. I'm over it, but am mad that I didn't at least write a complaint. Not that I wanted my money back, but he should not be a DJ.